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thats what I do

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and if we get physical I kind of hide the fact that Im holding an invisible being

rain

Im actually intrigued by tulpas that are mythical creatures tbh

Regardless of whatever mythical form they may take they are still mentally the same as one with a normal human form.

You mean like turning your head towards your tulpa and focusing on an empty space, and-- ah, yeah

Rusty

Regardless of whatever mythical form they may take they are still mentally the same as one with a normal human form.

yeah Ive noticed that

10:42 PM

I also dont get how tulpas completely change their form sometimes

10:43 PM

all my tulpas do is change their clothes and get haircuts

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and changes that would happen with age

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like getting taller

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I wouldnt be able to handle a complete appearance change in a tulpa

From my point of view your it's your tulpas who constrain themselves to imitate real life humans.

see I am the mastermind here

10:44 PM

so I constrain them

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but I pretend I dont

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:^)

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also none of them really want to change form anyway

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soo

10:47 PM

one of my tulpas actually got rid of his bowlcut for a short while

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he grew his hair back

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lol

Forms aren’t really a big deal for us and I don’t see why it is for anyone else

I just need to know who Im looking at

Forms have sentimental value to us

and associate a face with a name

For some tulpas forms are like a profile picture, for others they might be important part of their identity

self image etc etc

Our forms are important to us but they don’t impact as much as others seem to think.

idk man I just want to know that the boy with medium brown hair and gray eyes Im looking at is thomas

10:58 PM

and that that appearance is part of who he is

10:59 PM

unless he decides to dye his hair or something or grow it out

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Im just against COMPLETE appearance changes

Forms are not how we identify each other.

Have you ever seen a pair of tulpas looking like identical twins, btw?

I have a pair of tulpas that are identical twins lol

11:01 PM

see for realisms sake when I get close to a tulpa I also create their family

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so Im acquaintances with some of my tulpas' siblings and even one cousin

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but their parents and aunts and uncles are more like wonderland npcs

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they exist but they dont serve much purpose

I see

like there is a wonderland but there also isnt

In as sense there is one imposed on real world.

yes

I do not want to deal with any more people, no siblings or parents or whatever.

oh you'd be pleased to know that thomas has an older sister who I have talked with lol

11:05 PM

but shes a tad bit too old to become my friend

Are some of them married?

no

11:06 PM

there are in system relationships tho :^)

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btw do any of yall talk with your tulpas in servers or am I and thomas the only ones who do that lol

11:10 PM

like we talk to the other people as well

You mean talking with your tulpa through discord or letting them talk to other people?

but we sometimes break into our own convos

11:11 PM

no I mean like in tulpa servers, we are co-fronting and talking to each other while talking to the other people in the convo

We rarely talk just to each other. It's considered rude to talk with your tulpa in a server in a way that isn't interactive for others afaik.

welp we are certainly guilty of that one

11:13 PM

especially in the beginning (edited)

I think it's not that bad if it's at least somehow interactive

we kinda stopped doing it though

11:14 PM

over time

Alejandro

I think it's not that bad if it's at least somehow interactive

wdym by interactive btw?

11:15 PM

like not cracking inside jokes?

That too. I think there is nothing wrong with host and tulpa interacting in given talk with each other just like with other people for example. There is a problem when they hijack the chat to their own world though.

ok we did not hijack the chat per se but we did talk to each other a lot on the beginning

I can see the value in that but also it’s incredibly annoying

It's very annoying if not interactive. That's why it's considered rude.

Just make your own server and type to each other

@Rusty - jump It won't be interactive for others then

Alexia

Just make your own server and type to each other

@Rusty - jump It won't be interactive for others then

I agree ^

Alexia

Just make your own server and type to each other

@Rusty - jump It won't be interactive for others then

It already isn’t.

It could be with right execution

I agree with my brother, as long as you are open to interact with both your tulpa and other people at given time, it should be okay

In this server it’s actually directly stated in the rules that it isn’t okay

Where is it? I can't find it.

Huh, I don't see it specifically there, but I could see it falling under 'more details'->'rule 4: don't spam'

It would fall under spam if it's not interactive, I agree

It looks like they might have forgotten it with the rule update but it is very much a rule

12:14 AM

Search ‘in system conversation’ in the server and you will find a ton of people saying so.

I see

It’s generally seen as rude and attention seeking

It usually looks that way, unfortunately.

Rusty

It already isn’t.

i agree

1:26 AM

if you want to talk to yourselves, a private server would be great since you can record your convos, edit the server and add channels

1:27 AM

this server is meant to be interactive to everyone generally

Rusty

Just make your own server and type to each other

lol thats what we ended up doing

Best way to talk to each other, can 100% agree

xan intrusive thoughts affect switching

Adeus.

xan intrusive thoughts affect switching

Only if you listen and make them true...

Luminesce: Intrusive thoughts are not anything of substance past how you think of them (edited)

12:42 AM

If you were good at not caring about or paying attention to intrusive thoughts, they could happen literally all the time forever and it wouldn't hurt anything at all

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(Though when you do get good at ignoring and not caring about them, they tend to actually just go away/happen less frequently) (edited)

Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)

Only if you listen and make them true...

The only time in my life I wish I had the "this tbh" emote

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1:45 AM

Use this

Usually people use

Or that

hey, im not entirely new to tulpas as i researched this topic and even tried it a couple of years ago - but as nowadays im in a much worse situation, i guess i just wanted to ask what your guys' opinion on this would be since youre more experienced

basically would you say that its fine to create a tulpa when youre in the lowest point of your life, to try and help your mental state, to have somebody to talk to? or would you say that thats a horrible reason that could end very badly?

No one will tell you for sure.

12:18 PM

Making your first tulpa when you lack control might lead you to associate them with your intrusive thoughts. On the other hand, tulpa can support you through bad time.

holomaniac

hey, im not entirely new to tulpas as i researched this topic and even tried it a couple of years ago - but as nowadays im in a much worse situation, i guess i just wanted to ask what your guys' opinion on this would be since youre more experienced

basically would you say that its fine to create a tulpa when youre in the lowest point of your life, to try and help your mental state, to have somebody to talk to? or would you say that thats a horrible reason that could end very badly?

If you expect a tulpa to fix your mental state, it won't work. Tulpas are not a replacement for therapy. If you want a tulpa despite this, then that's fine. Keep in mind if your mental health acts up, you can always take breaks and reach out to your tulpa after things settle down again

id love that, yeah i totally know that they arent supposed to be my therapist, honestly all i need rn is just a friend i can talk to hah. if thats what i could potentially get then itd be lovely